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Topic: One night stands...

Posted: 10-09-2005 11:28 PM

Andrea: I had a bad experience the other night with this. I wanna know why college guys are so impersonal about sex. Why are they against committment?

Posted: 10-10-2005 08:57 AM

Ashley: Not all of them are but those that are just have not grown up yet. I know some that are the most personal and sweet. A lot of them though just don't know how to act, they are like little boys: oooh a toy all done with toy bye bye!

Posted: 10-10-2005 08:34 PM

Ibrahim: ^^That's not just with boys

There are girls as well who don't want a commitment, the biggest reason in my opinion is because people look at college is just a place of fun where you can do whatever you want, so they like to play the field. There are however, some people who are responsible and upstanding people, so 100% of the college students are idiots.

Posted: 10-11-2005 09:46 AM

Ashley: I am sorry I didn't mean to generalize! I agree there are girls with that mentality also! I just don't agree with it! That is a very dangerous way to act!

Posted: 10-27-2005 10:50 PM

Jup Jeremy: i'd have to say generally not a good idea b/c u usually end up getting hurt in the end - it's better to wait until ur with someone who cares about u

Posted: 02-03-2006 04:09 PM

Justin: I had one one-night stand on my 21st birthday (almost 3 years ago). I was drunk and I didn't think things through thouroughly. Even though I used a condom, I was paranoid about just sleeping with some random girl. I don't ever want to experiance that again.

Anyway, back on topic. I was drunk and horny and wanted to fullfill that basic desire, I suppose that's why it was impersonal for me. I heard that men also are more likely to have the desire to just "spread their seed" and leave because they can whereas a woman is the one potentially carrying a child so they require more emotions attached.

But, not all men are jerks and a lot of them won't go for a one-night stand.

Posted: 02-04-2006 04:10 AM

Justin: I will never do a one night stand. I don't like the idea. Plus I'm waiting till I am married to have sex

Posted: 02-24-2006 09:08 PM

A.: No Way. One guy, one night and never seen/heard from again??? That's Crucial.Some people (girls and guys ) are cool w/ it, but Just not worth it.

Posted: 02-26-2006 12:06 AM

Ibrahim: I like sex with love and intimacy

never had a one night stand before -- not planning to in the future

don't think it will even happen by accident

Posted: 03-29-2006 12:12 PM

Laura: not to mention, sex is so much better when it's with a person you're comfortable and confident with.... i can't imagine how good sex could really be with a perfect stranger.... you've got to have some sort of connection that's based on more than blind physical attraction.

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