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Topic: Do they have Physically Attractive to Date?

Posted: 05-15-2005 06:04 PM

talena: Does a person need to be physically attractive in order to date them or not. In my experience I have dated men who are very attractive but I am wondering if my dating experiences would be better if I did date someone whom I am attracted to.

Posted: 05-15-2005 07:22 PM

Roy: physical attraction is necessary... however, for me i find a woman who is reasonably beautiful and who can carry on an intelligent conversation with me, far more attractive than a dumb 9.5 pointer hottie.. just my two cents.. i have friends who have the exact opposite view..

Posted: 05-16-2005 01:03 AM

Erika: I agree. Obviously you have to be physically/ sexually attracted to the person in order to have a relationship. However, I'd MUCH rather date a decent looking guy with a great sense of humor/personality than a HOOOOTTTTT Guy who was a jackass.

I think the better the personality, the better the person looks. Still, there has to be at least a little bit of a physical attraction or else it's really hard to want to get to know someone

Posted: 05-16-2005 01:50 PM

Aisha: physical attraction definatley a MUST!!! but i guess when it comes to get used to the persons personality and that just makes you like them more!

Posted: 05-16-2005 02:59 PM

Jup Jeremy: i agree with Aisha - u need to be physically attracted to the person your dating but a lot of times once u get to know someone u become more attracted or in some cases less attracted to him/her lol

Posted: 05-16-2005 06:00 PM

Aisha: yeh true sometimes the more u know them the less attracted you get

Posted: 05-16-2005 10:30 PM

Soroush: Just like everyone mentioned it above, I think physical attraction is a great part of a relationship, however, it should not be the first thing that crosses one's mind. I personally would not give it a priority over more important things such as virtue and attitude.

Posted: 05-17-2005 01:20 PM

Anthony: I'm a firm believer in that a person's physical attraction gets you to pay attention to them, but it takes the mental aspect to attract and hook you into wanting to see someone more, and more. As far as dating goes there are a few philosophies. 1. the mall test...take a girl through the mall, and count to see how many guys heads she can turn (that's one way to see if you want to date) 2. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Always give someone a chance, you never know, lightning may strike!

Posted: 05-20-2005 09:48 AM

talena: That's a great idea Android, I mean Anthony! Dating someone based on what everyone else finds attractive. A word of caution though. If populartity is your determining factor, you might find yourself hand and hand with another dude.

Posted: 05-21-2005 10:06 AM

Anthony: Hey I'm not as cold and heartless as I seem to be. I never had a girlfriend before in my life, but I know I'm gonna make some lucky ladies husband some day.

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