SAM: "to sleep with" is a very serious statement. The only way I could see that happening is when marriage relationship is vivid. If just friends, then that must not happen. Unfortunately, as of nowadays, majority of people think that it is totally fine to have an affiar with a friend calling it a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. It never was my call to label such issues. But look into your BIBLE and you'll see what I'm talking about here. So, to answer that question, no it never was oka to sleep with an EX.
Posted: 10-28-2006 12:47 AM
IbRaHiM: I think in general sleeping with your ex is not such a good idea
Most people that have sex nowadays do it because there isn't any harm in it if you're responsible (Using condoms and birth control) -- With protection sex is pleasureable but not as risky, and besides how long is a person going to wait anyway? In past generations people waited, but they got married earlier.....now everyone is delaying marriage, it's too difficult to wait
Posted: 10-28-2006 03:24 AM
SAM: I won't totally agree with IbRaHiM. Having sex with an EX is a lil down act. Because it looks like you having such sex for the sex and not the person, becuase again he is your EX and you don't feel anything for him/her and therefore such an act is to fullfil ones need and that is exactly what people with no respect for them selves would do -- to have sex with whoever as long as it's protected! Now you might want to say, "but that's my EX and I know the guy/girl" then I would say, "WHY IS HE/SHE YOUR EX THEN?" and I would also say, "why don't you have sex with your nighboor, don't you know him/her?" and here is an old concept for you guys FRIEND FOR BENIFITS. Is that any different from having sex with someone you don't have feeling for? Explain that to me, please?