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Posted: 08-21-2006 09:22 PM

SAM: Read this and think along with me: which one would you like to be: Carrot, egg or coffee bean?

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:26 PM

Deepali: if i had to pick..i would pick egg.

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:27 PM

SAM: by Mary Sullivan - used with her expressed permission.
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as if as soon as one problem was solved a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. The mother filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots. In the second she placed eggs. And the last she placed ground coffee beans.
She let them sit and boil without saying a word. About twenty minutes later, she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she said, "Tell me what you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. (You known the tone of voice.)

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:28 PM

SAM: you would pick an egg, okay...let's c if you change your mind!

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:29 PM

Deepali: uho..did i pick the wrong one?

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:34 PM

SAM: There isn't a wrong choice here, there is a better one...that's all. It is a personal perfrance. It's ur call, Deepali. But lets see you might want to be an egg after all...

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:37 PM

Deepali: hehehe...finish getting soo anxious!!

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:40 PM

SAM: Sure! I will finish it for u my friend.

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:41 PM

SAM: She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did, and noted that they felt soft. She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg inside. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "So, what's the point, mother?" (Remember the tone of voice.) Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water - but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid center. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its insides had become hardened.

Posted: 08-21-2006 09:42 PM

SAM: The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water...they had changed the water. "Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot , an egg, or a coffee bean?" Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength? Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship, or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my outer shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart? Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water - the very circumstances that bring the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor of the bean.

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