sign in help      
directory |

Lets Talk - Other
Community Board: Lets Talk

Topic: LOVE

   Message Board

Lets Talk
Page 6 of 13      1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  
Topic: LOVE

Posted: 05-03-2006 07:52 PM

SAM: You're so wrong my friend. You marry someone that is hoest to raise a family not for only sex!! cuze if you're looking for sex, marriage isn't the thing for ya. Marriage is a relationship isn't like a BF-GF relationship at all. You deal with ur wife as you want this wife to love u and be with u for a long time not for sex only. Sex talk is for animals, but I do understand man-kind's point of view. Marriage is a very precious relationship between husband + wife and also the kids. You are not counting ur self but also wife and kids and they have rights. My friend, don't waste time saying that marriage is like anything else and that it isn't any different other relatioship.
Good Luck...

Posted: 05-04-2006 02:10 PM

IbRaHiM: I see your point, sex may not be all but it definitely is significant because without sex then the couple is just a pair of roommates and not romantic partners.

Posted: 05-10-2006 09:23 AM

SAM: It's not that I'm hardheaded, but sex isn't anything at all. Sex is a way to produce mankind. Now, if two are in a relationship the first thing you think about is sex, but u may not think about the deeper issue about this relationship. Right after marriage in about couple months, the marriage start to be more like a roomate cuze the sex thing is over and now it is more than that. If you have love for that person, then you should be okay, cuze you didn't base your marriage all at sex, but more. You share more than just a body but also thoughts and feelings and much more.
Remember, you wont live for ever, so u better suit ur self...

Posted: 05-10-2006 10:48 PM

Deepali: sam is right. but i wouldnt go as far as to say sex is nothing. it is to reproduce but also to add intamacy and closeness. however, sam is right. it is not that important. marriage is NOT like any other relationship. wheather it be roomates, or bf gf. to be married goes far beyong sex, and attration. It goes deeper into trust, faithfulness, love, patience, selflessness, and a lot of forgivness.

Posted: 05-14-2006 12:08 AM

SAM: wen i say sex, i do not mean that sex is nothing at all. I do agree with my friend Dee here. but that kind of connection has a different taste wen it, indeed, was practiced in the right TIME and that is marriage. LOVE is a feeling that is produced as a result of many things. Don't get me wrong here; it doesn't necessarily meant that it is a procedure you go through to be in love, but rather it is something you might encounter by just not being ready for it. Marriage is, in fact, part of that feeling where you get to trust someone that you don't know fully.

Posted: 05-14-2006 03:07 PM

IbRaHiM: I see your points, I guess this can be argued from both sides because there isn't one solution necessarily

Posted: 05-14-2006 11:13 PM

Deepali: of course there is one solution..and only one way. MY WAY!!! hehehe. jk

Posted: 05-14-2006 11:14 PM

Deepali: okok....i don't mean to change subjects (ok so maybe i do) what what do you think of arrange marriages

Posted: 05-15-2006 01:19 AM

SAM: lets first defind that kind of concepts! wat is arranged marriage?

Posted: 05-15-2006 01:35 AM

IbRaHiM: Arranged marriage is when your family decides who you should marry...I'm totally against them

Page 6 of 13      1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  

Go to the Chatterboard